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In a hadith narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslims, the Messenger of Allaah 'Alaihi wa Sallam said:

None of you believes, until I am loved by his father, his son, and all the people.

"It is not the  faith of any one of you until he loves me more than  his love for his  child, his parents and all human beings. " (HR. Bukhari and Muslims)

The faith denied in these hadiths is the perfection of faith.  It means that if there is one of us who still loves others more than  his love for the Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam, then he does not  infidelize, no  it came out of Islam, but it was sinful. Because what  is denied is the  obligatory perfection of  faith.

So, it is obligatory for every Muslim to love the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam more than  his love for all things and for anyone.

In another narration of Al-Bukhari, it is stated  that  'Umar bin Khattab Radhiyallahu 'Anhu said to the Prophet Shallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam: "O Messenger of Allah, indeed you love me more  of  everything except from   myself. "

So the Messenger of Allah Shallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam said: "Not O 'Umar, for the sake of Allah whose soul is in His hands until you make me more you love than all things including yourselves." So 'Umar bin al-Khattab said: "Now O Messenger of Allah, you are more in love than all things including myself." So then the Prophet Shallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam said:

Now, Omar.

"Now O 'Umar is just right. "

 This second hadith  explains that what is meant by  love in this hadith is love in the true sense, not just  exaltation. Because glorifying it is easier  than loving. And 'Umar bin Khattab never  glorified  himself more than the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam.  But he had time to love himself  more than his love for the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam.

This  explains that a friend of the  caliber of 'Umar bin Khattab did not know some Islamic law.  But look at how when he found out that  this was an obligation.  At that time he also  stated that he loved the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam more than  he  loved anyone.

And Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam deserves to be loved more than  anyone else and anything else. Due  to the causative factors of  one's love for another person there are three:

 Physical/birth factors.  For example,  because of her charming face or because of her beautiful voice.

 Inner /internal/inner beauty factors.  For example,  because of a person's sincerity  or the high knowledge he has.

 Service factor.

These three factors  are in the person of the  Messenger of Allaah 'Alaihi wa Sallam with his highest  degree.

The merits of the Prophet   Muhammad Sallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam in spreading/bringing hidayah to the  people of the last days are much higher/greater  than anyone's service to us.  Even  those merits are  greater than those   of  our own mothers who have been pregnant with us for months,  painstakingly  educating us with our various mischiefs.  Never  feeling tired, never  feeling tired, without ever expecting merit.

 If our mother had given her love  completely,  she had performed  her duties without diminishing anything.    What does it mean that if it  turns out that in the afterlife we do not go to heaven, we cannot get lasting happiness there.  All those merits will be in vain  meaningless  in the afterlife.

And the Messenger of Allaah 'Alaihi wa Sallam is the  cause that  Allah has chosen so that we can go to heaven, so that we can feel happiness in  the realm of eternity.

Then have you loved the  Messenger of Allaah 'Alaihi wa Sallam more than your  love for your  parents, for your  child, for your most expensive treasure?

You have no answer except one, which is to say yes. Because answers don't make you fall into  sin.  The answer is only one.  If you  can say yes, thank God.  If not, realize it is a sin and become 'Umar bin Khattab now.  Say: "O Messenger of Allah, now I  love you more than  my love for  anyone."

Thus, make your love for the Prophet Shallallahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam the greatest  love. And  thus InsyaAllah you will be raised up with him in the hereafter.  Wallohu alam